Get Your Program, Here!
” Program, program, get your programs here!”
” Programs, here! You can’t tell the players without a program!”
Just like the avid baseball fan, readers of Back When We Were Grown Ups would appreciate a program or even a score card to keep track of the sheer number of characters strolling in and out of Anne Tyler’s 15th book.
First off, the jovial Joe Davitch married Tina and begat three daughters:
- Bridget (Biddy)
- Patricia (Patch)
- Elinor (NoNo)
As the novel opens, we meet Rebecca (Beck) Davitch, 53, a dimpled grandmotherly type whose loose style of dress resembles that of a bag lady.
Widowed at 25, this proprietress of a 19th century Baltimore row house/party rental, inherited a ready-made family when Tina abandoned Joe and their three children for a career as a New York night club singer.
The eldest Davitch daughter, a part-time nutritionist who dreams of being a gourmet chef, habitually refuses to taste her own concoctions for the Open Arms clientele. With her fiance’ dead of an asthma attack, the newly pregnant Biddy, 20, moved in with his gay brother.
Together, she and Troy have parented Dixon, the black-haired, brown-eyed heart throb who waits tables and aspires to attend John Hopkins.
The middle daughter, a gym teacher with a sharp freckled face and chopped black hair, looks and acts 14. She and husband, Jeep, the big-footed runner have produced three children of their own.
- Danny, a natural athlete
- Emmy, the long-legged pixie
- Meredith, an exact replica of Patch
When the youngest, tiniest and prettiest stepdaughter marries corporate lawyer, Barry Sanborn, she becomes the mother of Peter, 12, whom Tyler describes as a puny runt of a boy.
Before Joe’s untimely death at 38 in a freak car accident, he and Rebecca produced a fourth daughter, Minerva aka Min Foo.
Her children include:
- Joey, 8, the product of her union with Drake, a 60-year-old college professor who has since moved to a Greek Island.
- Lateesha, 4, the offspring of her African-American husband, LaVon, an aspiring musician who teaches fourth grade.
- Baby Abdul, the son of her present husband, cardiologist Hakim Abdulazim.
Is your head spinning yet? Then add in Poppy (Paul Davitch) Joe’s almost 100-year-old uncle of the white bushy mustache and college degree who lives with Rebecca.
Plus, there’s Zeb, Joe’s younger brother, a gangling, bespectacled pediatrician who may or may not be a love interest for Beck. After all, they call each other every night before going to bed, alone.
Feeling that life had passed her by, Beck reconnects with her college sweetheart, Will Allenby, head of the physics department of a local university. But Rebecca’s futile attempts to rekindle their bygone romance fails and she rejects him for a second time. (How could anyone eat chili seven days a week for dinner?)
In the end, the matriarch of the Davitch family accepts her role as the go-to person, the problem solver and moves forward from that point.
Readers of Back When We Were Grownups will discover a well-crafted character study of a large dysfunctional family. The plot meanders along, rises to the celebration of Poppy’s 100th birthday and flat lines after that. Nothing of great importance happens, and for that reason, some may rate Tyler’s novel as boring.
However, others describe her work as a superb chronicle of ordinary life, the tiny daily events which fill our waking hours. Beck Davitch is as familiar as our next-door neighbor or best friend.
One reviewer thought that the opening line:
“Once upon a time, there was a woman who discovered she had turned into the wrong person.”
hinted at great life-changing events that never found their way into the novel’s narrative.
A complete listing of Tyler’s novels can be found here.
Discussion Questions for Back When We Were Grownups can be found at this link.
