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		<title>Book Club Fun</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Dec 2009 20:46:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[the guernsey literary and potato peel pie society]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Once a year, the church book club sets aside the monthly discussion questions in lieu of an evening of drinks, hor&#8217;dourves and fun. Sometimes the evening will feature the movie version of a favorite book and other times the high point will be a game of trivia drawn from the year&#8217;s reading list. For December [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">Once a year, the church book club sets aside the monthly discussion questions in lieu of an evening of drinks, hor&#8217;dourves and fun.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Sometimes the evening will feature the movie version of a favorite book and other times the high point will be a game of trivia drawn from the year&#8217;s reading list.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">For December &#8217;09, Anne compiled a jeopardy game using information from the following books:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/140007570X?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=bookclubcompa-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=140007570X">In the Company of Cheerful Ladies<br />
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0140143505?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=bookclubcompa-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0140143505">84, Charing Cross Road</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=bookclubcompa-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0140143505" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em> </em><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002GJU52Q?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=bookclubcompa-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B002GJU52Q">Wish You Well</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=bookclubcompa-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B002GJU52Q" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312147015?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=bookclubcompa-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0312147015">The Persian Pickle Club</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=bookclubcompa-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0312147015" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0385341008?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=bookclubcompa-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0385341008">The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society<br />
</a></em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0307405958?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=bookclubcompa-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0307405958">The Third Angel</a><br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0345477243?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=bookclubcompa-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0345477243"></a></em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0345477243?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=bookclubcompa-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0345477243">Back When We Were Grownups</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=bookclubcompa-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0345477243" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /><br />
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<p style="text-align: center;">The categories and the questions were as follows:<em><br />
</em></p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;">The British Isles</h4>
<p style="text-align: left;">1.	A channel island between England and France where our August selection took place:<em> (Guernsey Island)</em><br />
2.	The Marks &amp; Company address Helene Hanff sends her reading requests to:<em> (84 Charing Cross Rd)</em><br />
3.	Lucy Green is given a dog while visiting this country<em>:  (Scotland)</em><br />
4.	Biddy, Patch &amp; No No’s mother lives in this country<em>:  (England)</em><br />
5.	The Lion Park Hotel in London plays a big role in this book<em> : (The Third Angel)</em></p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;">Food &amp; Drink</h4>
<p style="text-align: left;">1.	Precious Ramotswe enjoys this particular brew<em>:  (bush tea)</em><br />
2.	 Rebecca Davitch gets this spilled all over her shoes by her future mother-in-law:  <em>(ham)</em><br />
3.	 Dessert was always provided by the weekly hostess of this group:<br />
<em>(Persian Pickle Quilt Club)</em><br />
4.	 Will Allenby’s nightly dinner:<em> (chili)</em><br />
5.	 Tinned ham and eggs were some of the gifts Helene sent because of this in 84 Charing Cross Rd:<em> (rationing)</em></p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;">Mysteries</h4>
<p style="text-align: left;">1.	 Besides coal, this other fuel was also discovered in the Cardinal coal mine:<br />
<em>(natural gas)</em><br />
2.	Ella Crooks husband Ben disappeared and was found here:<em> (buried in a field)</em><br />
3.	The problem with Michael Macklin’s room on the 7th floor of the Lion Park Hotel:<em> (haunted/ghost -of Teddy Healy)</em><br />
4.	Mma Makutsi figures out that Mr J.L.B. Matekoni’s house is being used as this:<em> (illegal bar – shebeen)</em><br />
5.	Mma Ramotswe’s secret that she can’t bring herself to tell anyone:<br />
<em>(she thinks she is still married to her 1st husband)</em></p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;">Friends,  Relatives &amp; Others</h4>
<p style="text-align: left;">1.	Mma Ramotswe’s office manager proudest achievement:<br />
<em>(97% on her final exam from Botswana Secretarial College)</em><br />
2.	Louisa Mae &amp; Oz Cardinal go to live with this relative when their parents died<em>:  (great-grandmother)</em><br />
3.	 Juliet &amp; Dawsey decide to do this:  (get married)<br />
4.	 How Helene Hanff and Frank Doel kept in touch:  (letter writing/post/mail)<br />
5.	The gift Zepha leaves for Queenie when she and Blue leave suddenly:<br />
(Quilt- called Road to California)</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;">Name That Book<em> </em></h4>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><em>Identify book by location</em></h4>
<p style="text-align: left;">1.	 Takes place in Appalachia &#8211; <em>(Wish You Well)</em><br />
2.	 Kansas &#8211; <em>(Persian Pickle Club)</em><br />
3.	New York and London &#8211; <em>(84 Charing Cross Rd)</em><br />
4.	 Baltimore<em> &#8211; (Back When We Were Grownups)</em><br />
5.	 Botswana<em> &#8211; (In The Company of Cheerful Ladies)</em></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><em>Note: </em>Elly won the prize for the most correct answers.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><em>** <strong>To facilitate this year-end trivia bash, refer to the discussion questions distributed monthly.</strong></em></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>What does your bookclub do for fun?</strong><em><strong> </strong></em></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><em><strong>***</strong></em><strong>Thanks to Anne for sharing the jeopardy book trivia with my readers!!</strong><em><strong><br />
</strong></em></p>
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		<title>Get Your Program, Here!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 18:13:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8221; Program, program, get your programs here!&#8221; &#8221; Programs, here! You can&#8217;t tell the players without a program!&#8221; Just like the avid baseball fan, readers of Back When We Were Grown Ups would  appreciate a program or even a score card to keep track of the sheer number of characters strolling in and out of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8221; Program, program, get your programs here!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8221; Programs, here!  You can&#8217;t tell the players without a program!&#8221;</p>
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<p>Just like the avid baseball fan, readers of <em>Back When We Were Grown Ups </em>would  appreciate a program or even a score card to keep track of the sheer number of characters strolling in and out o<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anne_Tyler">f Anne Tyler&#8217;s</a> 15th book.</p>
<p>First off, the jovial Joe Davitch married Tina and begat three daughters:</p>
<ol>
<li>Bridget (Biddy)</li>
<li>Patricia (Patch)</li>
<li>Elinor (NoNo)</li>
</ol>
<p>As the novel opens, we meet Rebecca (Beck) Davitch, 53, a dimpled grandmotherly type whose loose style of dress resembles that of a bag lady.</p>
<p>Widowed at 25, this proprietress of a 19th century Baltimore row house/party rental, inherited a ready-made family when Tina abandoned Joe and their three children for a career as a New York night club singer.</p>
<p>The eldest Davitch daughter, a  part-time nutritionist who dreams of being a gourmet chef, habitually refuses to taste her own concoctions for the Open Arms clientele. With her fiance&#8217; dead of an asthma attack, the newly pregnant Biddy, 20, moved in with his gay brother.</p>
<p>Together, she and Troy have parented Dixon, the black-haired, brown-eyed heart throb who waits tables and aspires to attend John Hopkins.<span id="more-1664"></span></p>
<p>The middle daughter, a gym teacher with a sharp freckled face and chopped black hair, looks and acts 14.  She and husband, Jeep, the big-footed runner have produced three children of their own.</p>
<ol>
<li>Danny, a natural athlete</li>
<li>Emmy, the long-legged pixie</li>
<li>Meredith, an exact replica of Patch</li>
</ol>
<p>When the youngest, tiniest and prettiest stepdaughter marries corporate lawyer, Barry Sanborn, she becomes the mother of Peter, 12, whom Tyler describes as a puny runt of a boy.</p>
<p>Before Joe&#8217;s untimely death at 38 in a freak car accident, he and Rebecca produced a fourth daughter, Minerva aka Min Foo.</p>
<p>Her children include:</p>
<ol>
<li>Joey, 8, the product of her union with Drake, a 60-year-old college professor who has since moved to a Greek Island.</li>
<li>Lateesha, 4, the offspring of her African-American husband, LaVon, an aspiring musician who teaches fourth grade.</li>
<li>Baby Abdul, the son of her present husband, cardiologist Hakim Abdulazim.</li>
</ol>
<p>Is your head spinning yet?  Then add in Poppy (Paul Davitch) Joe&#8217;s almost 100-year-old uncle of the white bushy mustache and college degree who lives with Rebecca.</p>
<p>Plus, there&#8217;s Zeb, Joe&#8217;s younger brother, a gangling, bespectacled pediatrician who may or may not be a love interest for Beck. After all, they call each other every night before going to bed, alone.</p>
<p>Feeling that life had passed her by, Beck reconnects with her college sweetheart, Will Allenby, head of the physics department of a local university.  But Rebecca&#8217;s futile attempts to rekindle their bygone romance fails and she rejects him for a second time. (How could anyone eat chili seven days a week for dinner?)</p>
<p>In the end, the matriarch of the Davitch family accepts her role as the go-to person, the problem solver and moves forward from that point.</p>
<p>Readers of <em>Back When We Were Grownups</em> will discover a  well-crafted character study of a large dysfunctional family.  The plot meanders along, rises to the celebration of Poppy&#8217;s 100th birthday and flat lines after that.  Nothing of great importance happens, and for that reason, some may rate Tyler&#8217;s novel as boring.</p>
<p>However, others describe her work as a superb chronicle of ordinary life, the tiny daily events which fill our waking hours. Beck Davitch is as familiar as our next-door neighbor or best friend.</p>
<p>One reviewer thought that the opening line:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;Once upon a time, there was a woman who discovered she had turned into the wrong person.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>hinted at great life-changing events that never found their way into the novel&#8217;s narrative.</p>
<p>A complete listing of Tyler&#8217;s novels can be found <a href="http://www.biblio.com/author_biographies/2152492/Anne_Tyler.html">here</a>.</p>
<p>Discussion Questions for <em>Back When We Were Grownups</em> can be found at this <a href="http://www.readinggroupguides.com/guides3/back_when_we_were_grownups1.asp">link</a>.</p>
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